Shit happens
If you ram your car into someone else’s you have to collect his or her info etc. to say that fate directed my wheel to that car would be just downright stupid. You hit them because you weren’t paying attention. If other people’s lives dictated yours there would be no justice system. You would appear before the court and the judge would just say ‘well I guess it isn’t your fault… you were looking at an interesting book. You can go. Shit happens.’ but alas it is not the case. On to emotions and suppressing them. For the longest time I thought that emotions should be used as much as possible. That if you suppress them you would become unhealthy.

